|Okay, so I joined a new RP about a week ago, and nobody's talking to me. It;s like they all have ships they're trying to get going and I don't, or they have little cliques that I can't break into. I've tried greeting new people, posting more often, and everything! Nothing seems to work. I'm at the point where if they don't start including me, I just might quit.|
I’m really sorry that’s happening! I know that it seems like some sites have an unbreakable clique, but no one can deny that it’s easier, and more comfortable to talk to someone or plot with someone you’ve seen around or know better than someone who just joined. However, if they’re completely ignoring you that’s not right and I would suggest leaving the site. But before you do, reach out to other shippers that look like they haven’t been posted in, make an open thread, maybe reach out to someone via PM and ask for their MSN/AIM, etc to just chat with them, get to know them. But really, if you don’t feel comfortable, it may not be a site for you. I don’t think anyone intentionally alienates anyone, unless they’re purposefully being mean to you.